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“Never Go to Bed Mad”: The Rule That Shaped 54 Years of Love

After 54 years, a simple rule still guides one marriage

LENOIR CITY, Tenn.— February 11, 2026—Some love stories begin with grand gestures. John and Kay Everett began with a knock on the door.

Married for 54 years, the couple now calls The Lantern at Morning Pointe of Lenoir City home. Their story traces back to a church picnic, where Kay met John’s mother for the first time. Before the day was over, John’s mom made a quiet request: she wanted Kay to meet her son.

The very next day, John showed up at Kay’s door.

Together, they built a life that includes two children, James and Sara, and decades shaped by partnership, care, and consistency. When asked what she loves most about her husband, Kay doesn’t hesitate.

“He’s always willing to help me,” she said.

John’s answer mirrors hers in its simplicity and depth.

“She always takes care of me,” he shared.

Through every season of marriage, one piece of advice has guided them both: never go to bed mad.

It’s a rule that has carried them through more than five decades — a reminder that love isn’t just about romance, but about choosing one another again the next morning.

As Valentine’s Day approaches, the Everetts’ story reflects a quieter kind of love — the kind built on showing up, taking care, and ending each day with grace.

About Morning Pointe Senior Living

Founded in 1997 by healthcare entrepreneurs Greg A. Vital and J. Franklin Farrow, Morning Pointe Senior Living operates assisted living and Alzheimer’s memory care communities in five southeastern states, including AL, GA, IN, KY & TN. For more information, visit morningpointe.com.

The philanthropic arm of Morning Pointe Senior Living is the Morning Pointe Foundation, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit that works to provide clinical scholarships and caregiver support. 

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